TLDR;
This video provides a comprehensive guide on how to give a Yoni massage, both to a partner and to oneself. It covers the definition of Yoni massage, its benefits (enhanced sensation and pleasure, emotional release and healing, enhanced connection with a partner, exploring sensuality and pleasure, stress reduction and relaxation), and detailed steps on how to perform it. The video emphasizes the importance of consent, mindfulness, and creating a safe and comfortable environment.
- Yoni massage is rooted in Tantra practices and focuses on massaging the vulva, vagina, and surrounding areas.
- Key benefits include enhancing sensation and pleasure, emotional release and healing, and deepening connection with a partner.
- The process involves setting the scene, having a consent conversation, getting present with each other, and using specific massage techniques.
Intro [0:01]
The video introduces the topic of Yoni massage, explaining that it's also known as a [ __ ] massage. The host shares her personal journey of learning to give herself a Yoni massage for therapeutic reasons, particularly for processing difficult emotions like grief, loss, anger, and fear. She emphasizes that Yoni massage offers a unique opportunity to connect with and heal from these challenging feelings. The host aims to share this practice with viewers, whether they are seeking personal pleasure, deeper connection with a partner, or to become a more skilled lover.
What is Yoni Massage and Why Do It? [2:34]
Yoni massage is rooted in Tantra practices, focusing on massaging the vulva, vagina, and surrounding areas to foster relaxation, pleasure, inner peace, healing, and connection. The practice emphasizes mindfulness, consent, and exploring erogenous zones, with the goal of achieving these benefits rather than solely focusing on orgasm. Reasons for engaging in Yoni massage include enhancing sensation and pleasure, facilitating emotional release and healing, deepening connection with a partner through communication and consent, exploring sensuality and pleasure, and reducing stress and promoting relaxation.
How to Give a Yoni Massage to Someone Else [5:31]
To give a Yoni massage, first, create a comfortable and relaxing environment with soft pillows, adjusted lighting, and relaxing scents. Engage in a thorough consent conversation, discussing acceptable and off-limits touches, and establishing safe words for stopping or slowing down. Use plenty of body-safe, pH-balanced lube or oil. Get present with each other through eye contact, shared breathing, or gentle touch. Ensure the receiver is comfortable with pillows supporting their knees or body. Begin with slow strokes on the breasts or stomach, gradually moving down to the vulva. Use cupping techniques and circular motions, incorporating techniques from the host's previous video on fingering. Include the outer and inner labia, the perineum (taint), and gentle rolling and tugging motions.
Working Inside the Vagina [12:34]
Before entering the vagina, obtain explicit consent. Enter shallowly with one finger, applying gentle pressure around the vaginal opening. Gradually move deeper if the receiver is comfortable, repeating the pressure and release motion. Once comfortable, increase the pace and incorporate techniques like the "come hither" motion to massage the G-spot. Alternate between massaging the vulva and entering the vagina to build arousal. The massage should last at least 10-15 minutes, or longer, given that women typically require more time to reach orgasm.
Aftercare [14:46]
After the massage, avoid abruptly stopping. Slowly remove your fingers, returning to the cupping position to maintain connection and allow the receiver's nervous system to calm down. Discuss aftercare, such as cuddling, sharing water or tea, or engaging in a quiet activity together. Aftercare is crucial for integrating the intense connection created during the massage.
Solo Yoni Massage [16:26]
For a solo Yoni massage, create a comfortable environment and set an intention, especially if using the practice for emotional release. Get mindful by placing a cupped hand over the vulva, closing your eyes, and focusing on your intention. Use slow, circular motions, working from the inner thighs to the inner labia, mirroring the techniques used with a partner. Entering the vagina can be challenging, so consider using a glass dildo or wand to apply pressure around the vaginal opening. Proceed as you would with a partner, using the "come hither" motion and alternating between the outside and inside of the Yoni.
Emotional Release and Final Thoughts [20:22]
Be prepared for potential emotional release, such as tears, especially if processing difficult emotions. Hold yourself, be present, and allow the emotions to subside. Aftercare is essential; stay in bed, take a warm shower, or engage in other comforting activities. The host encourages viewers to share their experiences and welcomes questions or comments via email or on the YouTube channel. She hopes the practice brings peace, release, and connection.
