Brief Summary
This video explains how women are subconsciously attracted to men based on their body language and movement. It highlights that women have evolved to quickly assess men's confidence and status through non-verbal cues, comparing these cues to predator (lion) versus prey (rabbit) behaviour. The key takeaway is that men can significantly improve their attractiveness by adopting slow, smooth, and calm movements, signalling confidence and high status, while avoiding fast, twitchy, and hesitant movements that signal nervousness and weakness.
- Women subconsciously assess men through body language.
- Slow, smooth movements signal confidence and high status.
- Fast, twitchy movements signal nervousness and weakness.
- 90-95% of a woman's attraction is based on how you move.
Introduction: The Unspoken Language of Attraction
The speaker challenges the common belief that words are the primary factor in attracting women, asserting that approximately 95% of attraction is determined by a man's movement and how he carries himself. He suggests that understanding this concept can fundamentally change a man's behaviour and, consequently, his success with women. The video aims to explain the specifics of how body language influences attraction.
The Evolutionary Radar: How Women Subconsciously Scan Men
Every woman's brain functions like a radar, subconsciously scanning men's movements to assess them. This radar is a product of evolution, developed over thousands of years to quickly identify danger and strength for survival. The human brain uses shortcuts to process information, and women have evolved to use this radar to quickly analyse men and determine their character.
Predator vs. Prey: The Key to Attractive Movement
Men who struggle to attract women often exhibit similar patterns in their behaviour. Men who are successful with women move in a way that is slow, smooth, and calm, similar to a predator. These movements are subconsciously interpreted as confidence and high status, two key factors that attract women. Conversely, men who move quickly, jumpily, and twitchily are perceived as nervous, weak, and potentially dangerous, similar to prey animals.
The Lion and the Rabbit: Understanding Movement Archetypes
The speaker uses the analogy of a lion and a rabbit to illustrate the difference between attractive and unattractive movement. A lion moves slowly, calmly, and in control, while a rabbit is jumpy and twitchy. Women's brains use these archetypes to quickly determine a man's character based on his movements. Moving like a lion signals leadership and strength, while moving like a rabbit signals weakness and fear.
The Impact on Men: Why Movement Matters
Women's brains are wired to quickly and efficiently read body language, often without conscious awareness. A woman can form an impression of a man within seconds of seeing him, based solely on his movements. This impression significantly influences whether she will be interested in him, potentially determining up to 90% of her decision to engage in a relationship.
Fixing the Problem: How to Move Like a Leader
To improve attractiveness, men should focus on moving slower and smoother, eliminating any twitchy or jerky movements. Avoid fidgeting or darting eyes, and instead, emulate the calm, controlled movements of a lion. This signals safety, control, confidence, and high status, all positive traits that women subconsciously seek.
The Power of Non-Verbal Communication: Conclusion
A man's body language speaks volumes before he utters a single word. Women can quickly assess a man's character and determine whether he is a predator or prey based on his movements. Coming across as prey significantly reduces the chances of attracting women. Being aware of this and consciously adopting more confident and controlled movements can dramatically improve a man's success with women.
