TLDR;
This video explains why women sometimes ignore men they like and how to differentiate between genuine interest and manipulative behavior. It highlights toxic attachment styles, manipulative tendencies, and the importance of meeting women in normal social settings to avoid those with personality disorders or antisocial traits. The key takeaways include understanding attachment styles, recognizing manipulative behavior, and adjusting meeting strategies to find more stable partners.
- Women with avoidant or disorganized attachment styles may push away those they like due to fear of intimacy or low self-esteem.
- Manipulative women may ignore men to gain control and test their ego.
- Meeting women in normal social situations increases the likelihood of finding someone with mental stability and genuine interest.
Toxic Attachment Styles [1:21]
Some women display toxic attachment styles, such as avoidant or disorganized attachment, stemming from low self-worth developed in childhood. These women often seek novelty and are initially very interested but push away when intimacy develops, as their attachment style perceives it as a threat. These women may exhibit hedonistic behaviors or isolate themselves, and trying to change them is usually futile. While they may offer intense experiences, the love they provide is often unhealthy. Their low self-esteem leads them to believe that if someone likes them, that person must be "lame," driving them to seek constant validation and newness.
Manipulative Tendencies [4:01]
Some women may ignore men they like due to manipulative tendencies, seeking control because of childhood experiences where they lacked it. To manage such women, it's advised to ignore them or challenge their ego by showing interest in other women, which can disrupt their facade and force them to reveal their true intentions. Differentiating between genuine shyness and manipulative behavior involves observing follow-through; a genuinely interested woman will eventually reciprocate, while a manipulative one will enjoy the attention without commitment.
Identifying Genuine Interest vs. Ego Games [5:07]
To distinguish between a shy, interested woman and one playing ego games, pay attention to their responsiveness and follow-through. A shy but interested woman will show some initial hesitation but will eventually open up if pursued confidently. In contrast, a manipulative woman may act shy or extroverted but will consistently fail to follow through on her commitments. She enjoys the attention but gives little back, indicating an ego game rather than genuine interest.
The Fatal Mistake: Where You Meet Women [6:00]
The biggest mistake men make is meeting women online or in clubs, where avoidant women with personality disorders or attachment issues are more prevalent. These women struggle to relate in real life and may have antisocial traits. Meeting women in normal social settings, such as school, art classes, sports teams, or regular clubs, increases the likelihood of encountering women with mental stability and consistent behavior. The more social and normal the setting, the more likely you are to find a partner without significant traumatic blockages.
Meeting Women in Normal Social Situations [8:21]
Meeting women in normal social situations, rather than online or at clubs, is crucial for finding stable partners. Women met through friends and family are less likely to flake because they are connected to your social circle. While flaking can still happen, meeting women in these contexts generally leads to more reliable and genuine connections.
