Brief Summary
This video addresses the common issue of dealing with a "3P" (third party) in the context of manifesting a specific person (SP). It emphasizes that focusing on the 3P only gives them power and sustains their presence in your reality. Instead, the key is to shift your focus entirely to the version of your SP who is solely devoted to you, denying the existence and importance of the 3P. By consistently selecting and affirming this desired reality, the 3P will fade away as your SP aligns with the version you are manifesting. The video also touches on the speed of change in people and the importance of not worrying about the "how" when manifesting.
- Focus on the version of your SP that only wants you.
- Deny the existence of the 3P and don't give it any attention.
- Attention and awareness are what keep things in your reality.
- People can change drastically and quickly.
- Don't worry about the "how" when manifesting.
Introduction
The video starts with Sammy introducing her Halloween-themed set and welcoming new viewers, explaining the channel's focus on manifestation and offering coaching services. She mentions that she will be talking about SP focused videos.
The Problem with Focusing on the 3P
Sammy addresses the common question of how to remove a 3P from your SP's life. She argues that focusing on removing the 3P is counterproductive. The very act of acknowledging and worrying about the 3P gives them power and sustains their existence in your reality. The goal should not be to eliminate the 3P directly, but to shift your focus entirely to the version of your SP who is exclusively interested in you.
Selecting the Desired Version of Your SP
The key to dealing with a 3P is to select the version of your SP that has no interest in anyone else. By focusing on this version, you effectively make the 3P irrelevant. This involves denying the existence of the 3P and refusing to give them any attention. Affirmations should focus solely on the relationship between you and your SP, as if the 3P does not exist.
The Power of Attention and Awareness
Sammy emphasizes that attention and awareness are what keep things in your reality. By starving the 3P of your attention, they will fade away. You should consistently think of your SP as being completely devoted to you, the love of their life, and unable to think about anyone else. Any affirmations related to getting rid of the 3P should be discarded, as they only reinforce the 3P's existence.
Manifestation and the Speed of Change
Sammy addresses the common belief that changing someone's feelings or behavior is a long and difficult process. She shares that people can change drastically and quickly, sometimes even overnight. Therefore, you should not worry about the "how" of your manifestation. Your job is to select the reality you want to experience and persist in that selection through your thoughts and affirmations.
Applying This to Other Situations
The principle of selecting the desired version of a person can be applied to any relationship, not just romantic ones. Whether it's a friendship or any other type of connection, you should always focus on the version of the person you want to experience.
The Role of Affirmations and Assumptions
Changing your thoughts leads to selecting a new version of reality. The more you persist in thinking of your SP as the person you want them to be, the more they will align with that version. Experiencing even small changes will reduce resistance and reinforce your expectations. This process eventually leads to the desired reality becoming an assumption, where you no longer need to consciously affirm it.
Conclusion
Sammy reiterates the importance of not focusing on what you don't want, as this only keeps it in your reality. She encourages viewers to deny the existence of the 3P and be delusional in their belief that their SP is completely in love with them. By shifting your awareness and attention, you can eliminate the 3P and manifest the relationship you desire.