TLDR;
The video addresses two questions from a viewer: how to respond when a woman asks if you only want sex, and how to increase sexual energy. The speaker advises to acknowledge the sexual interest but express a desire to get to know her first. To increase sexual energy, he suggests pursuing more attractive partners and focusing on self-improvement to attract them. He also touches on the idea of finding a long-term partner, advising not to actively seek it but to be open to the possibility if the right woman comes along.
- When asked if you only want sex, acknowledge the interest but express wanting to get to know her first.
- Increase sexual energy by pursuing more attractive partners.
- Focus on self-improvement to attract higher-quality partners.
- Be open to a long-term relationship if the right woman comes along, but don't actively seek it.
Responding to "Do You Just Want Sex?" [0:07]
When a woman asks if you only want to sleep with her, it's a trick question. While being direct is good, you don't want to make her feel like that's all you're after. A good response is to say, "Eventually, yes, but I would like to get to know you first." This acknowledges your attraction while indicating you're interested in more than just sex. Men present themselves well to attract women, knowing that financial stability and appearance play a role. Similarly, women know that men are often initially interested in sex, but they want to know if there's more to it.
Increasing Sexual Energy [2:42]
To increase sexual energy and avoid getting tired of partners, pursue hotter women. When you are with someone you are highly attracted to, your sexual energy will naturally be higher. If you're experiencing a lack of energy or stamina, it might be because you're with someone who is not attractive enough to you. The speaker shares an anecdote about a woman he was so attracted to that he could have sex multiple times without losing his erection.
The Importance of Self-Improvement [3:37]
The speaker advises focusing on self-improvement, such as hitting the gym and working on your purpose (finances, career), to increase your sexual market value and attract more attractive partners. If you're with someone who requires excessive effort to get you aroused, it's a sign you need to upgrade. Having a partner who is open to experimentation and willing to try new things can also keep things exciting.
Long-Term Relationships and Settling Down [6:19]
While the speaker generally advocates for a player lifestyle, he acknowledges that eventually, you might meet a woman who makes you want to settle down. However, he emphasizes not actively looking for this, as the odds of finding the perfect match in today's society are slim. He advises enjoying casual relationships until someone truly special comes along. You don't know if you get to know her maybe you want to spend more time with her maybe she coolest [__] you don't know that highly unlikely but you don't know that.