Brief Summary
This is a story about a man named Ryan who discovers his girlfriend, Vicki, is not only constantly talking about her ex, Chris, but also secretly planning to move him into their apartment. Ryan initially agrees, but then takes swift action by packing her belongings, changing the locks, and informing Chris of the situation. This leads to a series of escalating events, including legal threats, social media attacks, and the revelation of Chris's disturbing past involving hidden cameras. Ultimately, Ryan finds peace and begins a new, healthy relationship with a coworker, while Vicki faces the consequences of her actions and deceit.
- Ryan's girlfriend, Vicki, constantly talks about her ex, Chris, and plans to move him in.
- Ryan packs Vicki's belongings, changes the locks, and informs Chris.
- Vicki's actions lead to legal threats and social media attacks.
- Chris's disturbing past involving hidden cameras is revealed.
- Ryan starts a new, healthy relationship with a coworker.
Introduction
The narrator introduces the story of how his girlfriend's plan to have her ex-boyfriend move into his apartment led to a swift and decisive breakup. He emphasizes the importance of boundaries and self-respect, setting the stage for a narrative about recognizing and acting on red flags in a relationship. The narrator also asks viewers to subscribe to support the channel.
The Beginning of the End
Ryan, a 30-year-old man, recounts the beginning of his relationship with Vicki, 26, and how quickly she moved in after about six months due to a supposed rent increase. He later discovered she was actually kicked out by her roommate for borrowing clothes and jewelry without permission. Ryan owned a one-bedroom apartment where he paid all the bills, while Vicki occasionally contributed with small purchases like snacks, which she exaggerated as her fair share.
The Chris Constant
Ryan noticed a disturbing pattern where Vicki constantly brought up her ex, Chris, in their daily conversations, comparing him favorably to Ryan in various situations. This happened so frequently that Ryan felt compelled to address it, questioning why she mentioned Chris so often. Vicki dismissed his concerns, claiming Chris was simply a part of her history, but the Chris references only increased.
Ignoring Red Flags
Ryan tried to be understanding, but Vicki's constant comparisons and revelations that she still texted Chris regularly made him increasingly uneasy. She would act affectionately on social media but remained distant in person, failing to remember important details about Ryan's life while expecting him to remember everything about hers. Ryan realized he was happier when she wasn't around, as he felt he could relax and be himself without triggering arguments.
The Proposition
One evening, Vicki casually suggested that her friend, Chris, needed a place to stay due to his landlord selling the building. She proposed he move in with them temporarily. Ryan, sensing where this was going, asked who this friend was, and Vicki reluctantly admitted it was her ex, Chris. She downplayed the situation, suggesting Ryan could learn from Chris and that his cooking was superior.
The Breaking Point
Ryan, realizing Vicki saw their relationship as merely a convenient living arrangement, feigned agreement to see how far she would take the situation. Vicki immediately informed Chris, and Ryan overheard her excitedly texting him. He confirmed with Vicki's friend, Jen, that Vicki was lying about her plans for the evening. This was the final confirmation he needed to end the relationship.
The Eviction
Ryan swiftly packed Vicki's belongings into storage bins and garbage bags. He called locksmiths and found one available for an emergency after-hours fee. He found a man's watch among Vicki's jewelry and love letters from Chris dated during their relationship. The locksmith arrived, and Ryan had the locks changed, proving his right to do so with his lease and ID.
The Text
After changing the locks, Ryan moved Vicki's belongings to the curb and sent Chris a text message, informing him that Vicki was moving in with him and her things were at his place. He then locked himself inside, anticipating the fallout.
The Confrontation
Vicki bombarded Ryan with calls and texts, expressing her outrage and threatening to call the police. She arrived with Chris, demanding to be let in, but Ryan refused, stating that she wasn't on the lease and had tried to move in her ex without his consent. Vicki threatened to sue and ruin his life, while Chris seemed embarrassed and uncomfortable. Vicki called 911, fabricating a story about being thrown out on the street.
The Aftermath
After a sleepless night, Ryan received a call from Jen, who was surprised by Vicki's behavior. Jen revealed that Vicki had been sneaking around and lying about her whereabouts. Ryan consulted with his friend Marcus, a law student, who advised him to document everything and remain calm if the police arrived. Chris texted Ryan to ask for Vicki's essential items, which Ryan left with the building manager.
The Truth About Chris
A week later, Ryan ran into Jen, who revealed that Chris had been kicked out of his previous residence for secretly recording his roommate's girlfriend in the bathroom. This information was circulating in a group chat where women warned each other about creeps, and Vicki had been tagged in one of the threads. Ryan realized he had dodged a bullet by not allowing Chris to move in.
The Downfall
Vicki's support system crumbled as word spread about Chris's actions. She lost her job and was ostracized on social media. Vicki contacted Ryan, blaming him for her situation, but he blocked her. Vicki and Chris became homeless, moving from place to place until they were left sleeping in her car.
Moving On
Vicki posted false accusations about Ryan on social media, claiming he was abusive and controlling. Ryan documented everything and sent it to Marcus for safekeeping. He began dating Cassidy from his office, and his friends and family supported his decision to end the relationship with Vicki. Ryan learned valuable lessons about boundaries, self-respect, and trusting his gut.
