Brief Summary
This video presents six insights into the female mind, derived from the speaker's experience as a male escort. These insights cover the importance of archetypes in fantasy, the power of undivided attention, the attractiveness of passion, the desire for a man who embodies both "alpha" and "beta" traits, the loneliness of wealthy women, and the need for men to embrace their masculinity.
- Archetypes and characters are very important to women's fantasies.
- Making a woman feel like she's the only woman in the world is super powerful.
- Being a man who is passionate about something is extremely attractive to women.
Intro
Sterling Cooper, an award-winning adult film star and former high-class male companion, shares insights gained from his escort career to help improve viewers' sex lives. He introduces the topic by explaining that his experiences revealed interesting aspects of female psychology.
Types of Clients
Cooper describes the three main types of clients he encountered as a male escort. The first group consisted of wealthy businesswomen earning over $100,000 a year, who often sought companionship due to loneliness. The second type was couples looking for a "live experience," such as a threesome. The third, surprisingly, was other female escorts seeking a night off.
Archetypes and Fantasies
The first insight is that archetypes and characters are very important to women's fantasies. Male escorts often play a role, embodying a specific fantasy, such as a James Bond type, a younger jock, a bodybuilder, or a BDSM character. Looking like an archetype can even compensate for being unattractive, as long as it aligns with a woman's desires. Men should dress like a female fantasy rather than the average nice guy.
Undivided Attention
Insight number two emphasizes the power of making a woman feel like she is the only woman in the world. Giving undivided attention during a romantic date can make her feel special, loved, attractive, and sexy. This involves avoiding distractions like phones or other people and focusing solely on her. Asking questions about her life and how she became the woman she is today can make her feel exceptionally special.
The Power of Passion
Being a man who is passionate about something is extremely attractive to women. Cooper would talk about his passions, such as travel and nutrition, during dates. His clients often gave feedback on how attractive his passion was. Showing passion can lead to positive body language cues from women, indicating attraction and enjoyment of the interaction.
The Best of Both Worlds
Women want the best of both worlds: the "alpha fox" and the "beta bucks" in the same man. This combination is hard to find, especially for older women. The ideal man dresses well, speaks well, understands money, and can navigate social situations, while also being passionate in the bedroom and romantic. Cooper's job was to embody this fantasy by being all of those things at once.
The Loneliness of Wealthy Women
Wealthy women are often very lonely due to a cruel twist of fate. The more money a woman makes, the less likely she is to find a compatible partner because women tend to "date up." Older, successful women may find that the men they desire are interested in younger women. One millionaire client confessed that she couldn't trust anyone because everyone wanted something from her, leading to loneliness. She felt she could be real and honest with Cooper without judgment.
Brief Intermission
Cooper briefly discusses a new bundle offering all of his courses at a discount. The bundle includes "Nice Guy" (a training course on assertiveness and confidence), "Dark Game" (a dating course on meeting and attracting women), and bonuses like practical mastery, social mastery, and book club videos on Robert Green's "Laws of Human Nature." The bundle is offered at a discounted price with a 30-day money-back guarantee.