From Virgin To Sleeping With Hundreds Of Women (My Story)

Brief Summary

This video is about how to gain confidence and improve your social skills with women. The speaker, Jayden Raith, shares his personal journey from being a virgin with no experience to becoming confident and successful with women. He emphasizes the importance of direct interaction with women, practicing confidence, and creating a safe environment for social experimentation.

• Direct Interaction: Jayden advocates for approaching women directly, rather than relying on external factors like money, status, or physical appearance.
• Practice Confidence: He stresses the importance of practicing confidence, even if you don't feel it initially. This involves putting yourself in vulnerable situations and learning from your experiences.
• Safe Environment: Jayden recommends creating a safe environment for social experimentation by interacting with strangers, where the consequences of failure are minimal.

Directly to the Supplier

Jayden explains his approach to improving his social skills with women, which he calls "going directly to the supplier." He uses the analogy of buying jeans: instead of buying them at a store with a markup, you can go directly to the manufacturer and get them at a lower price. Similarly, he argues that focusing on direct interaction with women, rather than trying to achieve external validation through money, status, or physical appearance, is the most efficient way to improve your social skills.

Confidence from Zero

Jayden emphasizes that you have nothing to lose when approaching women. He encourages viewers to embrace the possibility of rejection as a learning opportunity and a chance to build confidence. He shares his personal experience of faking confidence in a job interview, which ultimately led to him getting the job. He explains that projecting confidence, even if you don't feel it initially, can lead to real confidence over time.

Practice Makes Perfect

Jayden stresses the importance of practicing confidence. He compares it to learning to ride a bicycle: initially, you might be shaky and unsure, but with practice, you become more confident and comfortable. He recommends practicing confidence in a safe environment, such as interacting with strangers in bars, clubs, or public spaces. This allows you to experiment and learn without the fear of social repercussions.

Separate Your Worlds

Jayden advises viewers to separate their social lives from their work and school lives. He suggests avoiding hitting on women in your workplace or school, and instead focusing on building social skills in a separate environment. He recommends connecting with like-minded individuals online or in communities, forming wingmen, and practicing social skills in bars, clubs, or public spaces where you're likely to encounter strangers. This creates a safe space for experimentation and learning.