Brief Summary
This tarot reading for Cancer focuses on the dynamics between Cancer and a specific person in their life during July. The reading covers the other person's potential dishonesty and stinginess, their intentions (or lack thereof) for the future, and their feelings of lust and neediness towards Cancer. It also explores Cancer's intentions to end the connection, their feelings of being used, and their planned actions to become unavailable and detached. The reading identifies burnout, mixed signals, and demanding behavior as blockages in the connection, and it foresees challenges and a need for inner healing. Ultimately, Cancer is likely to distance themselves, recognizing the unhealthy dynamic and prioritizing their own well-being.
- The person on Cancer's mind may be dishonest and stingy.
- This person has no plans for the future and feels clingy towards Cancer.
- Cancer intends to end the connection and feels used.
- Cancer will become unavailable and detached.
- The connection is blocked by burnout, mixed signals, and demanding behavior.
- The outcome involves challenges, inner healing, and Cancer stepping into their power.
Person's Traits and Dishonesty
The person on Cancer's mind is known to be dishonest and may make things up in conversation, potentially telling little white lies. This individual could be another Cancer. They exhibit pride and arrogance, and they are stingy, requiring a clear justification before offering any help or support. This person is self-absorbed, miserly, and unwilling to be generous unless absolutely necessary, demonstrating a lack of compassion and a tendency towards greed.
Intentions: Boredom and Lack of Planning
This person's intentions for the rest of the month involve boredom and a lack of planning. They seem aimless and without direction, possibly because Cancer was their lifeline. They are now idle, waiting for something to happen or for Cancer to make a move, as they have no plans of their own. They may be waiting for a sign or for Cancer's next action, showing a lack of initiative and a tendency to sit and wait.
Feelings: Lust, Neediness, and Isolation
The person feels sexually attracted to Cancer and sees potential for a new beginning. They experience lust and compassion, possibly with Leo or Cancer energy. They are clingy and needy, unable to find what they desire elsewhere, whether it be sex or companionship. This person is isolated, possibly agoraphobic, and lacks friends or other connections, making Cancer the best or only option they have.
Actions: Withdrawal and Cold Feet
This person may withdraw from the situation, feeling unable to handle it emotionally, and retreat further into isolation. They might cancel plans or back out of commitments, experiencing cold feet due to emotional overwhelm. They lack confidence and get scared off, possibly due to insecurity or a bad feeling they can't shake. Something seems to be guiding them away from Cancer, either a bad feeling or a spiritual warning.
Reasons for Backing Out and Insecurity
The person backs out at the last minute due to a feeling of betrayal or a bad omen, possibly driven by insecurity. They may feel that something doesn't give them a good feeling and they can't shake off the negative energy. This could be due to their own insecurities rather than any actual threat from Cancer. They might be looking for a sign from God to justify their actions, but ultimately, they back out due to fear and insecurity.
Cancer's Intentions: Ending and Observing
Cancer intends to bring an end to the connection, preparing for a change. They plan to hold back, observe, and remain quiet, not believing anything this person says or any excuses they offer. Cancer is listening to their intuition, recognizing the situation as "BS." They are using their intuition and possibly occult knowledge, such as tarot, to gain insight into the connection and to reinforce their decision to end things.
Cancer's Feelings: Used and Ungrateful
Cancer feels like they are always giving to this person without receiving anything in return, whether it's sexual gratification, money, time, or emotional support. They feel the relationship is unbalanced and unfair, with the other person breadcrumbing them or offering nothing at all. Cancer feels unable to express their true feelings because they are made to feel like the bad guy, possibly through emotional manipulation. Even if the person gives something, it feels like there's an underlying animosity or ulterior motive.
Cancer's Actions: Detachment and Disinterest
Cancer will take action by becoming unavailable and detached. They will ignore messages, avoid answering the door, and focus on their own business, self-care, and financial stability. Cancer will make sure that when the person comes back, they will not find anyone home. They will be more relaxed, chill, and disinterested, no longer stressing over the person.
Cancer's Perspective: Played and Manipulated
Cancer feels played and manipulated by this person, as if they were a puppet in their game. They feel they did things for no reason and were left with nothing in return. This person may have put Cancer in financial ruins or some kind of debt.
Blockages: Burnout, Demanding Behavior, and Mixed Signals
The connection is blocked by burnout, with someone feeling exhausted and cheap with their energy. There are also issues of demanding behavior and mixed signals, with someone setting impossible standards and being inconsistent in their interest.
Outcome: Departure and Challenges
The outcome is that Cancer will feel unable to handle the relationship and will likely leave. They may feel overwhelmed and burdened, not getting their needs met or receiving only breadcrumbs. Cancer will give themselves permission to leave and do what they want, possibly exploring other relationships. There will be challenges and setbacks, requiring inner healing and a decision to be made.
Additional Insights: Unhealthy Sexuality and Fake Flexing
The reading also highlights issues of unhealthy sexuality, with someone being promiscuous or dishonest about their desires. There is also a theme of fake flexing, with someone acting rich but being unwilling to help others. Cancer is stepping into their power and being praised, while the other person may face bad karma. Spirit guides are warning this person to stay away from Cancer to avoid negative consequences.