TLDR;
This video discusses how to attract women by understanding that attraction is emotional, not logical. It contrasts the "Jeffrey" approach (being overly nice and safe) with the "Adonis" approach (spiking a wide range of emotions). The video emphasizes that women are more attracted to men who can elicit strong emotions, even negative ones, and that men should not be afraid to stand up for themselves and express their true opinions. The video also touches on how being a "good boy" in relationships can lead to decreased attraction over time and encourages men to prioritize emotional stimulation to maintain a woman's interest.
- Attraction is primarily emotional, not logical.
- Spiking a wide range of emotions is key to attracting women.
- Being overly nice and safe can lead to boredom and decreased attraction.
- Men should not be afraid to express their true opinions and stand up for themselves.
- Prioritizing emotional stimulation is crucial for maintaining long-term attraction.
Start [0:00]
The video starts by contrasting two types of men: Jeffrey, who tries to attract women logically by being nice, and Adonis, who understands that attraction is emotional. Adonis knows how to trigger various emotions in women, making him more attractive. The key takeaway is that attraction isn't logical; it's about spiking as many emotions as possible.
Spiking Emotions to Attract Women [0:21]
The "Jeffrey" approach involves playing it safe, avoiding conflict, and always trying to make the girl feel good. However, this can be boring and lead to disinterest. To be more attractive, men need to be willing to anger, upset, excite, and shock women. The video highlights that even negative emotions can keep a woman engaged and thinking about the man. The goal is to be constantly on her mind, even if some of those thoughts are negative.
The Childish Psychology of Always Pleasing [1:50]
The video criticizes the "boy psychology" of always trying to make girls feel good, which is seen as de-masculinizing and childish. In conversations, the "Jeffrey" approach involves agreeing with the girl to avoid conflict, while the "Adonis" approach involves expressing his true opinions, even if they differ from hers. This creates emotional spikes and keeps her more engaged. The quantity of thoughts a woman has about a man is more important than the quality.
The Color Palette of Emotions [4:59]
The video uses the analogy of a color palette to explain the range of emotions men should aim to trigger. The "beta male" only knows a few positive emotions, while the "Adonis" understands the full spectrum, including excitement, spontaneity, anger, shock, and fear. By hitting every bit of the emotional color palette, the man becomes irresistible and constantly on her mind.
The Devastating Truth About Long-Term Relationships [7:09]
The video addresses the common issue of decreased attraction in long-term relationships. As men become "good boyfriends" or husbands, they often become afraid of making their partners feel negative emotions, leading to a mundane and predictable dynamic. This can cause women to lose interest and become attracted to new men who offer emotional stimulation. Attraction is purely emotional, not based on logical arguments or past investments.
Practical Advice: Piss Her Off and Then Surprise Her [8:10]
The video provides practical advice on how to spike emotions. This includes making jokes that are slightly rude, letting her sit with being pissed off, and then surprising her with a kind gesture. The goal is to be unpredictable and emotionally stimulating, like a drug. The video challenges the societal expectation that men should always be "good boys," arguing that this approach leads to unfulfilling relationships and a lack of sexual attraction.
The Truth About What Women Want [9:25]
The video asserts that women are biologically wired to be attracted to men who elicit strong emotions, even if those emotions are negative. It argues that every step towards becoming more like "Adonis" leads to more primal attraction. The speaker shares his personal experience of losing girls by following conventional advice and finding success by adopting the "Adonis" approach.
Your Track Record Means Nothing [10:37]
The video emphasizes that past actions and investments do not guarantee future attraction. Men often believe that providing and caring for a woman will ensure her continued love and desire, but this is not the case. The video points out that women often initiate divorces, even after years of the man's sacrifice and commitment. The only thing that matters is the ability to spike emotions.
The Best Treatment Comes Before Commitment [15:52]
The video presents the controversial idea that women often treat men best before they are in a committed relationship. As men invest more and commit, the woman's appreciation and treatment may decline. The video suggests that men should focus on their own growth and experiences rather than rushing into relationships, as commitment does not guarantee better treatment.
It's All About Emotions [17:48]
The video reiterates that attraction is purely emotional and not based on logic or reason. A woman can be deeply infatuated with a man who hasn't helped her as much as another, simply because he triggers the right emotions. The video encourages viewers to understand this truth and not hate women for it, as it is their biological nature. The key is to live through a rational mindset and recognize that women are wired differently than men.
Permission to Piss Her Off [20:19]
The video gives men permission to make women feel angry, pissed off, and jealous, as these emotions can increase their desire. It challenges the notion that being a "nice guy" is the key to success with women, arguing that women are often more attracted to men who are a bit "toxic." The speaker acknowledges that this advice may be controversial but insists that it is for the viewer's benefit.
The Game is Different [21:49]
The video emphasizes that the game of sexual attraction is very different from what men have been told. It encourages viewers to re-watch the video and internalize the idea that it's all about emotions. Men need to give themselves permission to piss women off, make them jealous, and stand up for themselves. The video concludes by stating that this approach, while seemingly mean, is actually what causes love, attraction, and infatuation in the first place.
There's No Honor in Being a Cuck [23:27]
The video strongly condemns the idea of being a "good boy" who gets divorced or cheated on. It argues that there is no honor in being a boring, nice guy husband who can't make his wife sexually excited. The video encourages men to prioritize keeping their partners sexually attracted to them, even if it means being seen as a bit "toxic." The speaker urges viewers to look at their own fathers and avoid the fate of being a divorced dad who can't make women wet.
Just Do What You Want [26:44]
Hamza's video editor shares his personal experience of following Hamza's advice, particularly the "golden rule" of "just do what you want." He explains how this approach has transformed his life and relationships, making him more confident and attractive. He recounts a specific instance where a girl admitted that his behavior was "uncomfortable but hot."
The Shortcut [27:53]
Hamza expresses his gratitude for the platform he has to share his advice, which he had to learn through countless mistakes. He emphasizes that viewers have him as a resource, while he didn't have a "Hamza" to guide him. He encourages viewers to join his platform, Library of Adonis, for more advice, education, and community support. The video ends with the call to action: "Do hard work, especially when you don't feel like it."