Brief Summary
This YouTube video by دروس أونلاين features a Q&A session with Ahmed Abu Zaid, addressing a wide range of questions from his audience. The discussion spans topics such as social media advice, defining success, career choices, personal habits, and balancing worldly and spiritual life. Key takeaways include the importance of critical thinking, self-awareness, continuous self-improvement, and maintaining a balanced perspective on success and personal values.
- Critical thinking and filtering advice are essential in the age of social media.
- Success is a personal concept that evolves with age and life stages.
- Investing in oneself through education, health, and good habits is crucial in one's twenties.
- Balancing worldly achievements with spiritual values is possible and encouraged.
- Writing is a powerful tool for self-reflection, problem-solving, and personal growth.
المقدمة
The video is a Q&A session where Ahmed Abu Zaid answers questions from his audience on various social media platforms. Over 7,000 questions were submitted, making it challenging to filter and select the most recurring and important ones to address.
اسوء نصيحة للسوشيال ميديا
The worst advice on social media is blindly following successful individuals without critical evaluation. Material success doesn't guarantee the truth or universal applicability of their advice. Success stories are personal and can't be replicated exactly. It's important to filter ideas and consider personal circumstances before accepting any advice.
ايه هو النجاح ؟
Success varies with age and life stage. It's a personal concept that brings happiness and contentment. True success isn't the dazzling image on social media but a hidden guru that extracts relaxation, satisfaction, and contentment from an ordinary day. It involves self-awareness and personal growth, not just material achievements.
هل حسيت بفرق في كل تطوير لمعداتك ؟
The impact of photography equipment on video quality varies. While some upgrades like the Black Magic camera significantly improved cinematic quality, others provided more subtle enhancements. The key is using the right equipment for the specific need, not necessarily the most expensive or advanced. Sometimes, a phone camera is the most appropriate tool.
ايه هو روتين شعرك ؟
Ahmed discusses his hair routine, mentioning the use of Minoxidil. He humorously anticipates future advancements in hair growth treatments that eliminate the need for transplantation. He emphasizes accepting one's appearance and not being overly concerned with issues that can be addressed later.
ازاي بتختار اصدقائك ؟
Friendships aren't chosen but naturally evolve over time. Childhood friends or those met unexpectedly often become the closest. Real friendships withstand differences and time. While some selection occurs, genuine connections are often serendipitous, with shared values and commonalities playing a significant role.
ازاي تحدد اهدافك ؟
Setting goals should be based on personal needs and circumstances, not societal pressures or rapid achievements of others. Each person's path and speed are unique. It's important to distance oneself from environments that impose unrealistic standards and focus on what truly aligns with one's values and capabilities.
ازاي استفيد من فترة العشرينات ؟
The best way to benefit from one's twenties is to invest in oneself through education, courses, and skill development. Maintaining health and building good habits are also crucial, as they yield cumulative benefits in later years. Investing in oneself early leads to significant returns over time.
ابو زيد انت قدوة
Ahmed acknowledges the compliment of being a role model but emphasizes focusing on words rather than individuals. He encourages viewers to remain steadfast and cautions against blindly following anyone, including himself.
الهروب من المذاكرة
The urge to escape studying is a sign of seeking quick dopamine hits. The solution is to fast from distractions and engage in activities requiring effort for satisfaction, such as exercise or hobbies. This helps the brain rely less on cheap dopamine sources.
التعلم الذاتي
When starting self-education, choose a source randomly to avoid analysis paralysis. Use that source as a standard to evaluate others. The key is to start and finish, rather than getting stuck in the selection process.
حق البنت في سن العشرينات
Parents should not impose their standards on their children, especially regarding non-essential needs like master's degrees or PhDs. It's important to ask children what they want and avoid pressuring them to conform to family expectations.
ايه اكتر كتاب قرأته ؟
The most impactful book varies depending on the individual's stage and needs. There is no one-size-fits-all recommendation. Instead, choose books that address current struggles or questions. The overall effect of reading multiple books contributes to self-knowledge and improved coping mechanisms.
كيف تجمع بين الزهد في الدنيا و من النجاحات كثرة المال و الرفاهية ؟
Combining asceticism with worldly success and wealth is possible. The idea of conflict between religion and wealth is a misconception. Asceticism doesn't require poverty. One can strive to be rich and use wealth for good.
ازاي اعمل فلترة لافكاري ؟
To filter thoughts, distance oneself from chaos and distractions. Dedicate time for reflection with pen and paper to write down and process thoughts. This practice helps in self-knowledge and understanding personal desires.
ايه اكتر اختلافات بين الويندز و الماك ؟
The main difference between Mac and Windows is dependability. Mac devices are generally more reliable and offer a smoother user experience. While personal preference matters, Mac devices have become more price-competitive.
هل اورط نفسي و اشتغل كتير قبل التخرج ؟
Working hard before graduation is beneficial. Skills acquired through work experience provide a significant advantage. It's better to understand the job market and develop practical skills early on.
ليه بننسي الي قرأناه في الكتب ؟
To remember what you read, interact with the material through highlighting, note-taking, and summarizing. Engage motor memory by writing down key points. Share what you've learned with others to reinforce understanding.
نصايح لفترة الثانوية العامة ؟
For high school students, create a rescue plan by studying at dawn, away from distractions. Avoid using phones and opt for laptops or computers. Prioritize focused study sessions to maximize retention.
هل لازم يبقي ليا كارير في سن العشرين ؟
It's not necessary to have a defined career in one's twenties. Avoid comparing oneself to others on social media. Focus on self-discovery and continuous improvement. It's okay to explore and not have everything figured out.
ازاي اقدر اوازن في حياتي ؟
Don't seek perfect balance early in life. Prioritize efforts on things that push you forward. Focus on learning and achieving success in your work. Later, you can revisit and balance other aspects of life.
ما علاج التفكير الزائد ؟
To treat overthinking, write down your thoughts to release pressure. Writing helps in finding solutions and clarifying problems. It's a way to organize and process thoughts effectively.
هل كنت تتخيل انك توصل للمكان دا ؟
Ahmed never imagined reaching his current position. His ultimate ambition is to remain steadfast and grateful for his blessings.
ايه اكتر عادة بسيطة غيرت حياتك ؟
Writing is the habit that has most changed Ahmed's life. Journaling, note-taking, and recording fleeting thoughts are essential for personal growth.
ايه لازمة الكتب الي بنقرأها ؟
Reading outside of formal education is crucial for acquiring linguistic skills and interpreting feelings. Novels help in expressing emotions and understanding complex concepts. Read whatever you enjoy to make reading a sustainable habit.
نصايح للاستفادة من الاجازة الصيفية ؟
To benefit from summer vacation, have fun and disconnect from life's pressures. Take a break from social media and enjoy life's beautiful things. Avoid self-development courses during vacation and instead, take a real break to recharge.
ازاي يكون عندي مرونة نفسية ؟
Psychological flexibility comes from real experiences and overcoming challenges. People must break and lose in battles to learn and grow. Accept life's problems and be thankful for the lessons they provide.
ازاي تحدد وقت معين توصل فيه لهدفك ؟
To set a specific time to reach a goal, set a deadline and push to achieve it on time. While you don't control all variables, the deadline helps you stay focused. Adjust your timeline based on experience.
كيف اتخلص من ذل ابي لي ؟
Consider your father's actions as a form of righteousness. Acknowledge his role in your upbringing and be grateful. Don't take his actions as humiliation but as a reminder of his care.
في ايام كانت صعبة جدا لك ؟
The transcript skips directly to the next question without addressing this one.
ما هي اهمية الفلوس بالنسبالك ؟
Money is essential and should be a high priority. It's the main driver for projects and necessities. Strive to have money and financial independence.
ازاي اخلي اهلي فخورين بيا ؟
To make your family proud, choose what suits you best, even if it differs from their expectations. Stick to what you think is suitable for you. In the long run, your happiness will make them happy.
ازاي اقوم اعمل المهام الي عليا ؟
To accomplish tasks, set aside your mood and do what you need to do. The mood will follow once you start. Don't wait for the mood to come.
ازاي نختار شريك حياتنا ؟
To choose a life partner, know yourself, know what you want, and pray for guidance. Engagement is not binding. Don't give in to pressure and use your brain and take responsibility.
اهاجر استراليا ولا امريكا ؟
For advice on immigrating to Australia or America, consult resources specific to each country. Follow content creators who share information about life, prices, and salaries in those regions.
ازاي تحدد انت عايز ايه ؟
To decide what you want, allow yourself to experiment and make mistakes. The twenties are a period of learning and self-discovery. Take your time and don't rush the process.
الموازنة بين الاخرة و حب الدنيا
To balance the afterlife and love of this world, don't think in terms of either/or. Strive for worldly success while maintaining your spiritual values. Both are not suitable.
ازاي احب حاجة مبحبهاش ؟
To love something you don't like, replace love with responsibility. Do it because you have to. Build your philosophy on solid concepts, not unreliable emotions.
ازاي ابطل احساس المثالية ؟
To stop feeling like a perfectionist, publish things you think are incomplete and see the reactions. People don't see or appreciate things as you do.
ايه الي مخليك مستمر في محتواك ؟
Commitment, continuity, and responsibility keep Ahmed consistent with his content. He replaced mood, passion, and energy with these concepts.
ايه الي ممكن اعمله و انا في الكلية و يغير حياتي ؟
While in college, focus on developing soft skills. These skills are very important. Also, read books about money, relationships, and habits to improve various aspects of your life.
ممكن تكون شاطر في كل حاجة و تنجح فيهم ؟
It's difficult to be good at everything and succeed in all things simultaneously. Specialize in a specific thing. Combine your skills in a way that creates something unique and valuable.
حل لتأنيب الضمير
To solve remorse of conscience, track your accomplishments and practice gratitude. Appreciate what you have already accomplished. Complete the cycle between work and rest.
ما انسب سن للزواج ؟
The appropriate age for marriage is when you feel ready. Marriage is good and brings blessings.
ازاي نذاكر و نركز وسط دوشة السوشيال ميديا ؟
To study and focus amidst social media distractions, throw away your smartphone. Use a push-button phone for communication only. Isolate yourself from temptations.
لماذا لا يتغير البعض للاحسن مع انهم عارفين ؟
Some people don't change for the better because they indulge in knowing more solutions without taking action. Close all sources and take a step. Divide tasks into simple steps.
كام مرة حسيت بالفشل ؟
Failure is a constant companion. Nothing works the first time. Accept failure as a basic component and learn from it.
عمرك حسيت في بداية طريقك ان محدش مؤمن بيك ؟
People don't believe in you until you are successful. Do what you need to do and don't need anyone's permission.
ايه رأيك في الشيفت كارير ؟
There is no obstacle to shift career. Everyone does what he likes.
هل تعتبر الرياضة اولولية في حياه الانسان ؟
Sports are a priority. Without health, all other zeros are useless.
ليه النجاح متعب ؟
Success is tiring because everything has a price. The price a person pays is fatigue.
اتجوز ولا اكمل دراستي ؟
There is no either/or here. It is very normal to get married while studying.
ازاي اطلع الاول علي الجمهورية ؟
If you want to be the first in the republic, you need to work much harder than those around you.
هل فعلا بتحس كل فيديوهاتك ذو قيمة ؟
You don't know that the video you are going to make will be valuable.
انت بتقضي كام يوم اجازة في السنة ؟
Ahmed tries to take a week off every three months.
هل بعد العناء جدوى ؟
Real comfort is in heaven.
ازاي اخلي التكنولوجيا الحديثة في صالحي ؟
To use modern technology to your advantage, control and choose what you watch and when.
ليه بننسى الي ذاكرناه ؟
The exam makes you forget the things you studied because of stress and tension.
ليه في ايام بتبقي تنين مجنح و ايام بتبقي مش قادر تتنفس ؟
To know what makes you a winged dragon and what makes you unable to breathe, you must write your personal manual.
ليه مش بتذكر اسمك في اغلب الفيديوهات ؟
Everyone tries to find the beginnings.
ايه السبب الي خلاك تسيب هندسة ؟
Money is the main reason Ahmed left engineering.
ليه المهندسين دايما الدنيا جاية عليهم ؟
The transcript mentions a thread made on Twitter about this topic.
ايه رأيك في التداول ؟
Stay away from trading. Learn a solid skill.
لماذا الله يجيب الفرص للشخص المستهتر ؟
God does what he wants and is not asked about what he does.
هل في معيار للنجاح في الدنيا دي ؟
Money is the key to success in this world.
ازاي اتجاهل الاراء السلبية ؟
To ignore negative opinions, prevent access to the talk.
ازاي متأثرش برأي حد فيا ؟
To not be affected by anyone else's opinion of you, know yourself well.
بفكر اسيب شغلي الاساسي و اعمل قناه يوتيوب ؟
Don't leave your job until you are standing on solid ground.
ليه دايما بنعوز نطمح للاكتر ؟
It is human nature to always want more.
ليه معندكش فيديو بيتكلم عن تنمية الذات للبنات و الامهات
Ahmed promises to host someone professional on this topic.
ليه ٤٠٪ من كلامك انجليزي ؟
Ahmed apologizes if this bothers viewers.
فقرة المقولة
Imam Al-Shafi’i said: There is no good in those who do not love to collect money from their own pocket to cover their face and maintain family ties.
الخاتمة
Ahmed thanks viewers for watching and encourages them to check out the discount code in the video description.
