TLDR;
The speaker discusses his recent separation from his wife, whom he married after dating for about a year. He attributes the relationship's failure to a mismatch in personalities and his observation that women sometimes feign interest in hobbies before becoming complacent after marriage. He shares dating advice based on his experiences, including avoiding long-distance relationships and dating someone for at least two years before committing. He also mentions his diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder and reflects on his dating choices.
- The speaker got divorced because of incompatibility and his wife's complacency after marriage.
- He advises against long-distance relationships and recommends dating for at least two years before committing.
- The speaker is diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder.
Intro [0:00]
The speaker begins by sharing that he has recently separated from his wife after being married for a few years. He mentions that he married her after dating for about a year. He reflects that the relationship had simply run its course.
Relationship Issues [0:14]
He expresses that he has learned people are who they are, and women sometimes act interested in hobbies before becoming complacent after marriage. He believes this contributed to the failure of his relationship, suggesting it was "doomed from the beginning" due to incompatibility. He notes that he is doing well and is able to save more money now that he doesn't have to support his wife.
Dating Advice [0:53]
He advises against long-distance relationships and recommends dating someone for at least two years before making them a girlfriend to truly understand who they are. He clarifies that this involves consistently dating one to three women over a long period before choosing a girlfriend. He believes being more patient in dating could have prevented his marital issues, regardless of any personality disorder.
Antisocial Personality Disorder [1:01]
The speaker reveals that he is diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder, which affects his interest in people. Reflecting on his past, he says he probably wouldn't have bothered with the relationship knowing what he knows now, but he doesn't regret it. He emphasizes that he would not date a foreign woman again due to the complications involved.