Brief Summary
This video portrays a conversation between a father and son regarding the son's marriage. Initially, the son postpones marriage to focus on education and career, but as he achieves his goals, the available marriage prospects are older. The father reflects on the situation, acknowledging his son's earlier ambitions and the current challenges of finding a suitable match. The son now aims for a promotion to manager before settling down.
- The son consistently delays marriage to pursue education and career goals.
- As the son gets older and more established, the potential matches are also older, leading to concerns.
- The father reflects on the changing circumstances and the son's evolving priorities.
12th Grade
The father expresses his desire for his son to get married, but the son, who is in 12th grade, asks to complete his education first. He promises to get married after finishing 12th grade. The father agrees to let him complete his schooling.
Bachelor's Degree
After completing 12th grade, the father brings up the topic of marriage again, mentioning a good match. However, the son now wants to complete his Bachelor's degree before getting married, promising to marry whomever his father chooses if he is allowed to finish his BA. The father agrees to this condition as well.
Getting a Job
Once the son completes his BA, the father presents another marriage proposal. However, the son now expresses a desire to get a job first, stating that he wants to be financially independent before settling down. He assures his father that he will marry whomever his father chooses once he has a job. The father consents to this new condition.
Working in a Bank
The son secures a good job in a bank and starts earning money. The father brings up the topic of marriage once again, and this time, the son agrees that he is ready to get married. The father starts looking for a suitable match.
Age Concerns
A potential match is found, and the family comes to see the son. It is revealed that the prospective bride works in a bank and earns well, but she is 35 years old. The father expresses concern that the girl is older than his son, who is still young.
Reflection and Advice
The father reflects on the situation, recalling how he initially pushed the son to get married, but the son was focused on his studies. He acknowledges the societal questions about the girl's age and the challenges of finding suitable matches as his son gets older. He advises his son that as time passes, the available matches may be older or have ulterior motives.
Becoming a Manager
The son acknowledges his father's point and states that he is currently working a normal job in a bank. He now has a new goal: to become a manager before getting married. He promises his father that he will definitely get married once he achieves this promotion.
